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Derech Hashem (דרך השם): Seeing Clearly—The Journey from Understanding to Transformation

It’s easy to assume that once we understand something, we will naturally integrate it into our lives. But experience tells us otherwise. Understanding alone is not enough.

Many of us have had the experience of hearing the same piece of advice for years—only for it to suddenly click at the right moment. Why? Because understanding is only one part of healing. There’s a deeper process at play, a transformation that happens not just in the mind, but in the body, the emotions, and the spirit.

This week in Derech Hashem (דרך השם), we explored what it really means to heal, to see clearly, and to embrace change at the right time.

Why Do We Struggle to See Clearly?

It’s one thing to seek truth. It’s another thing to be ready to see it.

Often, we mistake healing for a process of simply gaining knowledge—as if knowing the source of our pain is enough to remove it. But just as sugar is still tempting even when we know it’s bad for us, awareness alone doesn’t move the needle.

🔹 We lie to ourselves—not always intentionally, but as a form of protection.
🔹 Sometimes, we aren’t ready to process something yet, so our minds filter it out.
🔹 Healing isn’t just about knowing. It’s about knowing when we are ready to integrate what we’ve learned.

This is why growth is so slow for many of us. The same advice, the same lessons, might sit in the background for decades—until one day, we finally see it for what it is.

And when that moment comes, everything shifts.

Healing vs. Understanding: What Are You Really Seeking?

One of the most important questions to ask yourself is:

🔹 Do I want to heal, or do I just want to understand?

For some, understanding is a form of healing. It allows us to reframe our past, to see our experiences with clarity, and to extend self-compassion instead of self-criticism.

But for true transformation, we need more than knowledge—we need embodiment.

Instead of trying to “fix” ourselves or “erase” our past, we can ask:

👉 What is the value of what I have gone through?​
👉 How has this experience shaped me in a way that gives me strength?​
👉 How can I use this understanding not just to cope—but to grow?

Pain doesn’t need to be rewritten as a “good thing.” But it does need to be recognized for what it is: a force that has shaped us, given us depth, and built resilience.

This is not about erasing the past. It’s about understanding its utility.

The Power of Readiness: Why We Hear Things Differently Over Time

If you’ve ever wondered why some lessons take years to sink in, it’s because our capacity to receive information changes as we grow.

🧠 Developmental Readiness – Just like we don’t teach complex mathematics to a five-year-old, some truths are only accessible when our mind, body, and emotions are prepared for them.
🌀 Emotional Readiness – If we aren’t in a stable place, receiving deep truths can feel overwhelming rather than enlightening.
🌱 Spiritual Readiness – Just as certain teachings, like Kabbalah, are traditionally reserved for older individuals, many life lessons only become digestible after we’ve matured.

This is why forcing growth doesn’t work.

👉 The right teachings, at the wrong time, can be disruptive.
👉 The right teachings, at the right time, can be life-changing.

Our job is not to force ourselves to be “more ready” than we are.
Our job is to stay present, stay open, and trust that when we are ready, clarity will come.

Still Waters: The Importance of Quieting the Mind

One of the most profound insights we discussed was:

👉 You can only see yourself clearly in still waters.

This means that when our minds are cluttered, anxious, or overactive, we will struggle to see truth—even if it’s right in front of us.

This is why morning stillness is so powerful.

🔹 In the morning, the mind is not yet clouded with the noise of the day.
🔹 Before opinions, reactions, and distractions set in, there is an opportunity to simply be.​
🔹 This is when we are most connected to ourselves—before the outside world fills our thoughts.

The goal isn’t just to find clarity—it’s to nurture the space within us that allows clarity to emerge.

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The Gift of Shabbat: A Lesson in Stillness

The practice of Shabbat is an example of this principle in action.

During the week, we are constantly in motion—physically, mentally, emotionally.
But Shabbat is an invitation to stop, to receive, to absorb.

For those who don’t understand this practice, Shabbat might feel like restriction.
But for those who experience it fully, Shabbat is nourishment.

It is a time to step away from distraction and return to our essence.
It is a practice that forces us to experience stillness without guilt.

And this is why, for some people, Shabbat feels uncomfortable at first.​
Because true stillness forces us to meet ourselves.

🔹 If we haven’t done the inner work, Shabbat might feel restless.
🔹 If we are used to distractions, Shabbat might feel like an emotional mirror.
🔹 But if we lean into it, we discover that stillness is not empty—it is full of presence.

Just as in the morning, we find clarity in quietness—so too does Shabbat allow us to recalibrate and reconnect.

Final Thought: Are You Listening, or Just Hearing?

There is a big difference between hearing something and truly listening to it.

Many of us have spent years reading books, attending classes, and searching for wisdom—
​But how much of it have we truly received?

If you find yourself struggling to integrate what you learn, ask yourself:

1️⃣ Am I seeking knowledge, or am I seeking transformation?​
2️⃣ Am I making space for stillness, or am I drowning in distractions?​
3️⃣ Am I ready to receive truth, or am I forcing something I am not yet prepared to hear?

Because true growth doesn’t come from knowing more—
It comes from knowing when you are ready to receive.

And when you are ready, truth has a way of finding you.

This is the essence of Derech Hashem (דרך השם)—
A path of clarity, of presence, and of understanding that goes beyond words.

A path that invites us to stop, to listen, and to truly see.

💡 What insights from this resonate with you the most?​
💡 Where in your life do you need more stillness to see clearly?

I’d love to hear your thoughts.

✨ Until next time, let’s keep exploring. ✨

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Esther & Esther

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